Violet Fawkes

Harlow: I Designed A Dildo!


I designed a dildo! A really awesome, fun, all-purpose dildo, and I’m so excited to finally share all the details.

Designing my own sex toy has been a dream since I first began sex-blogging. I had no idea how or when I would do it, but I knew that a) I wanted to write full time, b) I wanted it to be how I made a living, and c) I wanted to design and sell a sex toy. Bringing Harlow to fruition and sharing it with the world means that I can now check off all three goals!

  • art deco style, old hollywood font "harlow" against glittery gold lights and purple curtqains
  • a pink and purple dildo on a marble tabletop. int he background are pearls, makeup, etc.
  • film strips with the Harlow dildo by Violet Fawkes and a pic of Jean Harlow.
  • purple and black background, two round images, close ups of the dildo, Harlow by Violet Fawkes
  • black background and white text: "No one ever expects a great lay to pay all the bills." - jean harlow
  • a pink and purple dildo nestled in a silver-grey fur
  • "take a bombshell to bed"
  • b&w film strips: images of Harlow by Violet Fawkes, the best dildo ever, in a strap on harness.
  • full length image of pink and purple dildo called Harlow by Violet Fawkes
  • 20 colour examples of dildos
  • black and purple background, white text: thank you to FREELY TOYS for the collaboration and helping create Harlow by Violet Fawkes

Why You’ll Love Harlow

I knew that I wanted to design something that had broad appeal for newbies and experienced toy users. I wanted it to have enough shape and texture to be exciting, but not so massive that it was intimidating. Striking this balance was more of a challenge than you’d imagine, but we got there in the end.

Harlow is the dildo you will reach for time and again. This is a reliable and effective toy. The head is blunt so G-spot, prostate, and cervix pressure is easily controlled. The tapered top half provides a ribbed texture, and the bulges at the middle and base give just the right amount of stretch and resistance.

Harlow is versatile. Made entirely from non-porous, body-safe silicone, Harlow is great for vaginal or anal penetration and can be completely sterilised. As with all silicone toys, water-based and oil-based lubes are your friend.

Harlow plays well with others. The base makes it strap-on compatible (1″ or 1.25″ O ring) so partnered adventures are not only possible, but so pleasurable.

Harlow’s Details

  • Made from 100% silicone
  • Harlow can be customised with your choice of three densities
  • Choose from over 20 stunning colours.
  • Total Length 6.5IN/16.4cm
  • Insertable Length 5.7in/14.4cm
  • Max Width 1.8in/4.5cm
  • Girth 5.6in/14cm