Recently I was asked what sex-positivity is and why it’s so important. The person asking then asserted that they didn’t believe sex-positivity could be defined and therefore could not be a viable philosophy or way of life. Challenge accepted!
I enthusiastically recommend the IUD but only if you are a good candidate for it. Making fully informed decisions regarding our bodies and health can be overwhelming but it’s important to try our best.
I am bisexual. Which feels good to say, but complicated to maintain. I always identified as straight, until I didn’t. Even then, I had challeneges in fully embracing being by. And yet that is what I am.
I have a wonderful sex life with my husband. The fact that we have very different preferences doesn’t detract from that. I’m kinky and hypersexual; he’s vanilla and asexual. Despite—or because of—this, our sex life is all the awesome.