Lingerie Is For Everyone is an inclusive, supportive and body positive weekly link-up where you can share your love of lingerie through words and photos. Lingerie has long been seen as something just for women and it’s often represented by only a very narrow example of women, (usually slim, white, and cisgender). For something with…
Lingerie is For Everyone – Week 78
I’m not in love with my body. Not yet.
{CONTENT WARNING: weight, body image, bulimia, self esteem}
Lewds, Love and Lust
I had a beautiful moment of self love today. They are fairly rare, to be honest. It’s not often that I really feel love for my body. I try to be appreciative of it’s utility but I am mostly ambivalent about its beauty. I don’t find my body repulsive to look at or unpleasant to…
Safewords: A Non-Negotiable for Me
Prompt #2 from No True Way is such an excellent topic but holy fuck is it jacking up my blood pressure. This will absolutely be a ranty post! Safewords and Doms that are flippant and discouraging of them are one of my absolute hot buttons in kink. And I don’t mean “hot” like sexy, I…
Fridays are for Panties
I buy a lot of lingerie. This shouldn’t be shocking considering I run Lingerie Is For Everyone, but buying it =/= wearing it. I have loads of panties that are cute, silky, lacy, racy and they mostly just wait in a drawer until I’m inspired to slip into them and show them off … cue…
Oceans of Time
Do you believe in destiny? That even the powers of time can be altered for a single purpose? That the luckiest man who walks on this earth is the one who finds… true love? The above quote is from Bram Stoker’s Dracula, a favourite novel of mine, made into a favourite film of mine. This…
Blog Posts I Loved This Week
Welcome back to ‘Blog Posts I Loved This Week’. I am *really* trying to make more time to read, not just to write. My words are important to me (and hopefully to a few of you?) but there are so many amazing bloggers in this community who have more to say that is of more…
Write Big Sexy Words – July Edition
Summer is here my lusty logophiles. It’s time for the hot’n’sticky Write Big Sexy Words – July Edition – no theme this month – just 9 delicious words for you to use in your blogging and smutting (is that a verb? it is now!) And don’t forget: if sharing images is more your style, feel…
He Found the Key
Are you up to speed on this awesome new writing prompt: #QuoteQuest, an inclusive, sex-positive prompt that runs weekly on LSB’s blog. The concept is simple: respond, through words and/or images to the quote posted weekly. This week’s quote is:
Triggered
I had a weird morning today. I got up and went about my usual weekend morning routine and checked out Twitter over coffee. I went down a bit of a rabbit hole of the ongoing transphobic rhetoric and that led me through a few threads of civil conversations, then defensive back and forth between bloggers,…
This Week’s Recommended Reading
Now, more than ever it seems important to read each other’s work and share the pieces that strike a chord. The sex blogging community continues to divide and fracture and it seems like every day there’s more conflict and more frustration. Is it an apocalypse? A renaissance? I suppose we shall have to wait and…
Did You Take Your Meds Today?
{Content Warning: Did You Take Your Meds Today? contains references to mental health, medication, suicidal ideation, depression & anxiety, and mental health stigma as well as brief mentions of childhood sexual abuse. If these are challenging topics for you, please proceed with caution.}
Clarity
I’m learning to love my body in a new way, and to my surprise, it’s through masturbation. I’ve begun to relish self pleasure in a way I have never experienced before and I am delighted that I’m not overthinking it. Quite the opposite, it is providing me with a lovely sense of clarity.
The Hunger is Real
Sometimes you just need what you need. I’m still learning that it’s okay to have needs, to admit that the hunger is real, especially when it comes to sex and sexual/sensual self-care.
A Day of Rest
Content Warning: Father’s Day, references to emotional and psychological abuse, the normalizing of abuse, links to past posts that discuss negative self image, weight/weight gain, body issues, etc. Please proceed with caution if these topics are challenging for you.
Appetite
“There’s a capacity for appetite… that a whole heaven and earth of cake can’t satisfy” ― John Steinbeck