Violet Fawkes

Fetish and kink are often misunderstood. Explore their differences, cultural impact, and why neither is inherently problematic or shameful.

For a very long time, monogamy, the idea that you have one romantic or sexual partner at a time, has been the main model for relationships in Western culture. In this structure, a person is expected to find one partner, stay faithful, and share all emotional and sexual intimacy with them alone. While this system works for many people, it also comes with strong social rules. Let's unpack them!

Breakups in polyamory can be uniquely complicated—especially when there are shared communities, overlapping relationships, or pressure to “be okay” because you have other partners. This post offers a kind, grounded look at how to survive (and grow from) a breakup in polyamory, with practical tips, emotional support, and a reminder that your grief is valid.

Monogamous responses to non-monogamy often range from sheer disbelief, to disgust, to fear and defensiveness. Why? Let's talk about it.

Metamours are your partner’s other partners. This mini guide explains how to communicate and celebrate this unique connection.

What was once the realm of speculative fiction is now a tangible, rapidly evolving industry. What does that mean for the future of intimacy?

Pap smears might be uncomfortable, but they’re essential for cervical health. Learn why regular screenings matter, what abnormal results really mean, and how to navigate the anxiety that comes with them.

Non-monogamy is no great mystery, but asking someone about their personal life can be dicey, no matter which kind of relationship it is. This guide will help you navigate!

BDSM dating involves more than just seeking play partners; it's about forming significant connections. Specialized dating sites cater to the kink community, facilitating the search for compatible partners with shared values, whether dominant, submissive, or otherwise.