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Explore. Empower. Enrich.

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I’m Violet Fawkes, and my mission as a pleasure educator is to support your journey of sexual self-discovery. I create sex-positive resources to help you explore, empower, and enrich your life with practical information, wisdom and self-love.

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REVIEW: Mystical Unicorn Dildo
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Read My Sex Toy Reviews
Kinky Horoscopes for July
Kinky Horoscopes for July
NEW: Summer Erotica
NEW: Summer Erotica
What Is Submission In BDSM?
What Is Submission In BDSM?
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How To: Suggest A Threesome
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Read the Newest Blog Posts
The Secret To Amazing BJs
The Secret To Amazing BJs

Be Curious, Creative & Courageous

There are five themes to help you navigate as you explore this site, and yourself: Being Sexy, Being Kinky, Being Playful, Being Intimate, and Being Whole. Each section is an ever-growing archive of information meant to support, inspire, and inform you.

Being Sexy

What does it mean to be sexy, and why do we care so much? If you want to explore beauty standards, body politics, and living your sexuality authentically, then you’re in the right place!
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Being Kinky

Curious about kink but don’t know where to start? Learn the lingo, get tips for safely navigating a scene, or find a helpful how-to guide. It’s all here for you to explore!
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Being Playful

Want to get serious about the fun side of sex? Dive into the world of sex toys and pleasure products to enrich and expand your definitions of pleasure.
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Being Intimate

No relationship is one-size-fits-all, but this is never more true than when Relationship Anarchy is at play. Learn more about the empowering ways people are expanding their connections and finding new ways to love.
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Being Whole

Isn’t it time you fell in love with yourself? Explore your relationship with yourself and your sexuality with self-affirming exercises, tips for self-advocacy and healing, and further resources for sexual health and wellness.
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Recent Posts

What Pride 2024 Taught Me About Myself

There are two wolves inside me. One seeks harmony and promotes understanding, the other one feels perpetually misunderstood and seeks retribution. Pride 2024 did not allow either wolf to rest.
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Kinky Horoscopes for July

"She said, 'Step in my transporter So I can teleport ya All around my heavenly body.'"
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Bisexual Disaster

There’s just something so expansive and exploratory about bisexuality. It feels both subversive, and incredibly wholesome.
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Flipping The Script: Monogamy

Imagine if the scripts were flipped and non-monogamous people expressed derision and judgement towards monogamists in the same way?
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What Is Submission in BDSM?

Submission is often misunderstood. Do you know the basics of BDSM Submission?
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