Embracing summer doesn’t have to mean enduring shame or discomfort, it can mean finding new ways to feel good, to feel free, and to feel fully you.
Examining body acceptance, and lack thereof, is fruitless if it’s not done through a lens of intersectionality.
Imagine the impact if we all just said no, and didn’t buy-in to the idea that January is simply a magnifying glass for all of our perceived flaws. Imagine if this is the year we learn to love ourselves, and our changes and improvements come from within?
When we explore and express our sexuality, often a difficult question arises: are my sexual fantasies healthy? In order to answer this question for yourself first you must define what healthy sexual fantasies are. Depending on the community you were …
You met, you felt a spark, maybe you even fell in love. It started hot and heavy but now you’ve hit a rut, a dry patch, or maybe your appetites just don’t match up anymore. Is it over? It doesn’t have to be.
The secret is out: sexiness has so much less to do with your physical body than you think!
In a perfect world, a fat pussy and a full mons is a delight to be treasured. I delight in mine. I’m not shamed of it. And my sex life certainly doesn’t suffer as a consequence.
If you are thinking about sharing your survival story with a new partner, here are some suggestions and considerations I have gleaned from my therapist and learned along the way.
I had four lovers in 2017, two long term and two new additions. The new ones have broken a period of avoidance that has been more about me than anyone else. Coming to terms with how others love my body even when I have questions.
