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Sponsor Highlight: Sutil Lubes
Meet the Barbarian
It’s a joy to introduce you to this exceptional toy: Meet the Barbarian! Sent to me by John Thomas Toys, the Barbarian is by far the biggest toy I have ever used! Let me tell you all about how this 3 lb chunk of silicone has been blowing my mind …
I Want You In the Morning
I’m hitting two memes in one with this post on morning sex: Kink of the Week and Quote Quest.
Remnants
“Le loup déroule le tapis rouge, – Ce qui reste du Chaperon Rouge.” ― Charles de Leusse
5 Myths About Vulvas That Everyone Should Be Aware Of
As part of #Sextember, it’s time we had a look at some of the myths and lies surrounding bodies and sexuality. Centuries of puritanism, misogyny and flawed research have created many misconceptions about the vulva – what it is, how it works and what makes it unique. So, in an effort to tackle this ongoing…
Shower Power
Punishment has always been a strange concept to me within D/s because for a long time I thought of it as unnecessary. I know that’s an unpopular opinion and I get that for many folks punishing/being punished is part of the fun. Punishment gives tangible consequences to the accountability of much desired tasks and structure,…
Lingerie Is For Everyone Top 3
Holy moly. I know I say this all the time, but I am constantly impressed by the images that y’all link up for Lingerie Is For Everyone. Stunning, creative, sexy, honest, the list of positive adjectives just goes on and on, but every time there are a few stand-outs that are exceptionally great.
Feeling gorgeous? Link up your lingerie pics!
Lingerie is for everyone and every body. All are welcome. The lingerie links are now open through September 30th; join in as often as you like!
Part of You Now
When I was first inducting myself into the kink world, collars were one of the most seductive tropes: how special would it feel to be chosen and then wear a constant symbol, a reminder of ownership and commitment. My first and only collar was not a gift, and not something I wore regularly. It was…
To Kneel or Not
The world of kink has many, many tropes, many cliches and many presumed “musts” and kneeling is definitely one of them. For many, kneeling in submission, or expecting a sub to kneel, is simply D/s 101. But there are lots of reasons to consider the question: to kneel or not to kneel because like all…
Self Flagellation
[Content Warning – image of cane marks, reference to BDSM and self harm]
Lingerie Links are Now Open
Lingerie is for everyone and every body. All are welcome. The lingerie links are now open through September 14; join in as often as you like!
Did Someone Say Sextember?
Did someone say sextember? That’s right, this month is going to be even more full of sex-ed and sexual health info, sexy fiction and personal opinions and thoughts on all things sex.
#Write Big Sexy Words – September Edition
September always feels like “back to school” even though I have been out of the classroom for many a moon. This is a strange year for those back to school vibes, considering the state of the world, so for the #Write Big Sexy Words – September Edition we are going with an academic theme; think…
Game Over
[Content Warning: “Game Over” is a work of fiction and it contains playful choking, verbal teasing, rough sex and implied, ongoing consent between an established couple.]
Just Call Me Angel
Maybe the sun’s light will be dim, And it won’t matter anyhow. If morning’s echo says we’ve sinned, It was what I wanted now.