I’m caught in a strange place. I’m stuck somewhere between angry/sad and it doesn’t feel good. It’s Pride Month and I’m full of conflicted feelings. Is there a word for the opposite of ‘coming out’? Because I want to go back ‘in’.

Lewds, Love and Lust

I had a beautiful moment of self love today. They are fairly rare, to be honest. It’s not often that I really feel love for my body. I try to be appreciative of it’s utility but I am mostly ambivalent about its beauty. I don’t find my body repulsive to look at or unpleasant to…

cropped view of a woman, hand in her purple shorts, in a blue robe and pink bra - the bi pride flag colours


I had myself a little photo shoot this morning in some pink, purple and blue to represent the bi pride flag for Pride month for Lingerie Is For Everyone. It’s my first ‘out’ Pride and I’m really in my thoughts and feelings about sexuality and the journey that took me so long to realize I…