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    #FebPhotoFest Day 8 – Princess

    You treat me like I’m a princess I’m not used to liking that You ask how my day was You’ve already won me over in spite of me And don’t be alarmed if I fall head over feet And don’t be surprised if I love you for all that you are I couldn’t help it It’s all your fault   lyrics from Head Over Feet by Alanis Morrisette which you can listen to here

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    #FebPhotoFest Day 6 – The Smell Of Leather

    Today is a two for one because I was remiss and I’m posting late. Naughty Violet. Speaking of, I tend to focus on my Femdom interests here but at my core I’m absolutely a switch. I’ve dabbled in lots of power dynamics but I haven’t shared much bottoming or submitting, not for awhile. The joy of being out of control is unlike anything else. In keeping with my #FebPhotoFest theme of “VF HQ”, pics from around the house and office, here are some pretty bondage close ups with my favourite convertible pervertable: leather belts. Anyone else get a bit of a charge from the smell of leather? I can’t be…

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    #FebPhotoFest Day 5 – Memory Lane

    This picture brings back so many memories. It was the first time I tied a man up. I still remember my hands shaking, worried I’d do it wrong. (Rope Safety is real, friends!) I didn’t mess it up, though it was a unique pattern and not very durable. Luckily the play was light so the integrity of his bonds didn’t matter much. I recall distinctly, finishing the last knot, and then thinking, “Oh shit. What now?”  

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    #FebPhotoFest Day 3 – Leave Them On Red

    The psychology of colour is so potent. It’s responsible for the Golden Arches being an appetizing shade of yellow, why products labelled ‘organic’ or ‘natural’ are so often in green packaging, and why American presidents so famously wear red ties (it’s a power colour). I too feel a certain flirtatious surge of power when I pop in this candy apple plug and do kegels or yoga. Self care is important, so leave those texts on read and get down with yourself. You deserve it! Love, Violet xx    

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    #FebPhotoFest Day 2 – Humble Beginnings

    This picture takes me back to my early days of kink discovery; weekends in the wilderness, at the feet of a loving sadist (yes, my journey began with submission), learning what it meant to taste freedom for my body and mind in ways I’d never dreamed of. The thirst for intensity and intimacy has not been slaked these many years, it has become, in a word, unquenchable.

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    #FebPhotoFest Day 1 – Still Life with Dildo

    I am SO excited to join in on #FebPhotoFest … despite being notoriously bad at posting everyday (I didn’t manage to do it for my own #JanuaryJumpStart meme) but here I am. As they say, “The road to Hell is paved with good intentions.” I’m starting then with a quick capture of a candid moment that sums up the aesthetic of my sex blogging: the blog itself, extensive amounts of coffee in an appropriately representative cup (that mug says it all) and of course, a dildo, because there’s always one (or two or five, or a dozen) laying around my office because, well, sex blogger. This particular dildo is the…