Ours is not the most rigidly structured of D/s relationships. While we do have Just Us Things that provide a frame work, new “rules” don’t often come up. In the spirit of growth and development, I recently asked Him for something I wanted. It was nothing big, something I’d describe as a micro kink ……
Content Warning: kink, D/s, orgasm denial, orgasm control, references to religion
We left our friends at the pub, excusing ourselves before the small party began to grow or relocate to another venue. After long goodbyes, (why can’t people just say goodnight when tipsy?), squaring our bill and making sure the birthday boy and his friends got another round on us, we left the crushing din of…
#JanuaryJumpstart Day 6: When We first began our relationship and quickly began to discuss and include D/s in the structure of our connection, He said something that made me pause. He said, “This is your true nature.” But was it really that simple?
When does a habit become a ritual? When does a ritual become a rule? These are the existential kink questions that I love to muse upon. Every power dynamic is different and we may have a relaxed dynamic, but low protocol is not no protocol.
I struggle with body image. I am forever careening hopelessly along the spectrum of self-appraisal, somewhere between total bridge troll and absolute sex goddess. I have not been feeling sexy lately, but I think I am finally getting my sexy back?
I love the prompts that Lillith comes up with for No True Way because they swirl me into a temporary, yet incandescent, rage every time. The phrase for NTW #13 is exceptionally infuriating! But let me tell you why …
Time again for another #QuoteQuest post! I haven’t had the spoons for a lot of writing in the last few weeks, but it seems that the fog has lifted and the words are flowing again. Destiny. Dracula. This is right up my alley …
“There’s no place for love in D/s.” What a statement! I love the No True Way project because it make me think, and more often than not, gets my hackles up. Do you need love in D/s?
Punishment has always been a strange concept to me within D/s because for a long time I thought of it as unnecessary. I know that’s an unpopular opinion and I get that for many folks punishing/being punished is part of the fun. Punishment gives tangible consequences to the accountability of much desired tasks and structure,…
When I was first inducting myself into the kink world, collars were one of the most seductive tropes: how special would it feel to be chosen and then wear a constant symbol, a reminder of ownership and commitment. My first and only collar was not a gift, and not something I wore regularly. It was…
The world of kink has many, many tropes, many cliches and many presumed “musts” and kneeling is definitely one of them. For many, kneeling in submission, or expecting a sub to kneel, is simply D/s 101. But there are lots of reasons to consider the question: to kneel or not to kneel because like all…
[Content Warning – image of cane marks, reference to BDSM and self harm]
I can hear you in the next room and I strain my ears to decipher your sounds. I hear the jingle of buckles and hardware, the creak of the lid of the trunk at the foot of the bed, the rattle of keys and the click of a lock. Private. Hidden. Secret. I don’t know…
Wicked little doll, collapsing buildings Wicked little doll, cities in flame Wicked little doll, devil or angel? Wicked little doll, they’re both the same
Have I mentioned I’m loving #NoTrueWay, the D/s writing prompt that Lillith posts fortnightly? The topics never fail to grab my attention and often the quotes get my blood boiling a bit. The current quote is no exception. Let’s have a look, shall we?