Time again for another #QuoteQuest post! I haven’t had the spoons for a lot of writing in the last few weeks, but it seems that the fog has lifted and the words are flowing again. Destiny. Dracula. This is right up my alley …
Do you need Love in D/s?
“There’s no place for love in D/s.” What a statement! I love the No True Way project because it make me think, and more often than not, gets my hackles up. Do you need love in D/s?
Shower Power
Punishment has always been a strange concept to me within D/s because for a long time I thought of it as unnecessary. I know that’s an unpopular opinion and I get that for many folks punishing/being punished is part of the fun. Punishment gives tangible consequences to the accountability of much desired tasks and structure,…
Part of You Now
When I was first inducting myself into the kink world, collars were one of the most seductive tropes: how special would it feel to be chosen and then wear a constant symbol, a reminder of ownership and commitment. My first and only collar was not a gift, and not something I wore regularly. It was…
To Kneel or Not
The world of kink has many, many tropes, many cliches and many presumed “musts” and kneeling is definitely one of them. For many, kneeling in submission, or expecting a sub to kneel, is simply D/s 101. But there are lots of reasons to consider the question: to kneel or not to kneel because like all…
Self Flagellation
[Content Warning – image of cane marks, reference to BDSM and self harm]
Locked Box
I can hear you in the next room and I strain my ears to decipher your sounds. I hear the jingle of buckles and hardware, the creak of the lid of the trunk at the foot of the bed, the rattle of keys and the click of a lock. Private. Hidden. Secret. I don’t know…
Just a Doll
Wicked little doll, collapsing buildings Wicked little doll, cities in flame Wicked little doll, devil or angel? Wicked little doll, they’re both the same
Questions Are a Right, Not a Privilege
Have I mentioned I’m loving #NoTrueWay, the D/s writing prompt that Lillith posts fortnightly? The topics never fail to grab my attention and often the quotes get my blood boiling a bit. The current quote is no exception. Let’s have a look, shall we?
A Plug and Pegs Day
“It’s a plug and pegs day, Princess.” He needn’t tell me any more than that. Just one line and I’ve opened my desk drawer, which houses among the usual stationery supplies, a slim plug, two wooden clothes pegs and a tube of thick, viscous lube.
Those Two Little Words
I noticed a tiny corner flag on a cell in my daily/weekly tasks spreadsheet that I had overlooked. What I found made me smile.
The Big D
I really, really love the No True Way writing prompt. Lillith does a great job of choosing salient and relatable quotes that, without context, are easy to respond to because they illicit such a reaction, or at least they do for me! The current prompt is just begging for discussion on sexism in D/s, a…
His Cumslut
I am a cumslut. Few things will bring out the eager dedicated submissive slut in me faster than the promise of a hot load. It is my favourite way to be possessively marked, with bruises as a close second. There’s something so delicious about being smeared with hot cum, I long to earn my pearl…
Tuned In and Turned On 24/7
This week’s #BeyondFetChat prompt from Love Is A Fetish is on 24/7 and Total Power Exchange (TPE) style relationships. Our current dynamic may not be exactly the definition of TPE but it is a very nuanced and consuming dynamic, the likes of which I have never experienced before. It has me tuned in and turned…
Safewords: A Non-Negotiable for Me
Prompt #2 from No True Way is such an excellent topic but holy fuck is it jacking up my blood pressure. This will absolutely be a ranty post! Safewords and Doms that are flippant and discouraging of them are one of my absolute hot buttons in kink. And I don’t mean “hot” like sexy, I…
He Found the Key
Are you up to speed on this awesome new writing prompt: #QuoteQuest, an inclusive, sex-positive prompt that runs weekly on LSB’s blog. The concept is simple: respond, through words and/or images to the quote posted weekly. This week’s quote is: