Punishment has always been a strange concept to me within D/s because for a long time I thought of it as unnecessary. I know that’s an unpopular opinion and I get that for many folks punishing/being punished is part of the fun. Punishment gives tangible consequences to the accountability of much desired tasks and structure,…
When I was first inducting myself into the kink world, collars were one of the most seductive tropes: how special would it feel to be chosen and then wear a constant symbol, a reminder of ownership and commitment. My first and only collar was not a gift, and not something I wore regularly. It was…
The world of kink has many, many tropes, many cliches and many presumed “musts” and kneeling is definitely one of them. For many, kneeling in submission, or expecting a sub to kneel, is simply D/s 101. But there are lots of reasons to consider the question: to kneel or not to kneel because like all…
[Content Warning – image of cane marks, reference to BDSM and self harm]
I can hear you in the next room and I strain my ears to decipher your sounds. I hear the jingle of buckles and hardware, the creak of the lid of the trunk at the foot of the bed, the rattle of keys and the click of a lock. Private. Hidden. Secret. I don’t know…
Wicked little doll, collapsing buildings Wicked little doll, cities in flame Wicked little doll, devil or angel? Wicked little doll, they’re both the same
Have I mentioned I’m loving #NoTrueWay, the D/s writing prompt that Lillith posts fortnightly? The topics never fail to grab my attention and often the quotes get my blood boiling a bit. The current quote is no exception. Let’s have a look, shall we?
“It’s a plug and pegs day, Princess.” He needn’t tell me any more than that. Just one line and I’ve opened my desk drawer, which houses among the usual stationery supplies, a slim plug, two wooden clothes pegs and a tube of thick, viscous lube.
I noticed a tiny corner flag on a cell in my daily/weekly tasks spreadsheet that I had overlooked. What I found made me smile.
I really, really love the No True Way writing prompt. Lillith does a great job of choosing salient and relatable quotes that, without context, are easy to respond to because they illicit such a reaction, or at least they do for me! The current prompt is just begging for discussion on sexism in D/s, a…
I am a cumslut. Few things will bring out the eager dedicated submissive slut in me faster than the promise of a hot load. It is my favourite way to be possessively marked, with bruises as a close second. There’s something so delicious about being smeared with hot cum, I long to earn my pearl…
This week’s #BeyondFetChat prompt from Love Is A Fetish is on 24/7 and Total Power Exchange (TPE) style relationships. Our current dynamic may not be exactly the definition of TPE but it is a very nuanced and consuming dynamic, the likes of which I have never experienced before. It has me tuned in and turned…
Prompt #2 from No True Way is such an excellent topic but holy fuck is it jacking up my blood pressure. This will absolutely be a ranty post! Safewords and Doms that are flippant and discouraging of them are one of my absolute hot buttons in kink. And I don’t mean “hot” like sexy, I…
Are you up to speed on this awesome new writing prompt: #QuoteQuest, an inclusive, sex-positive prompt that runs weekly on LSB’s blog. The concept is simple: respond, through words and/or images to the quote posted weekly. This week’s quote is:
Historically speaking, I’m not a very good masturbator. I can do it, I do do it, but it’s always been an act of need, not want. I don’t spend time with my body in that way, I never have, and there have been times that I really wished I did. In the past I’ve written…
I’m excited to get in on “No True Way” – the new bi-monthly prompt from Lilly’s blog. I had the distinct pleasure of working with her on the badge and banner as well as talking through the nuts and bolts of running a writing meme/prompt. I think her idea of dissecting and discussing the common…