H is for Body Hair (Don’t Care!)

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So Long, Subby Boys

Awhile ago I wrote a personal and passionate post about hanging up my Domme Hat and abandoning FemDom. This was partly out of frustration but also the opportunity to engage in “the other side of the slash” and explore my Little/Babygirl itches. Since then, I have taken myself out of the dating game until at…

5 Things I’m Doing Instead of Dating

When things hit their sudden and unceremonious breaking point with Lover Boy in early September, I took the opportunity to step back and evaluate a few things. It was a challenging time to do some soul searching but I also felt so empty, inexplicably, and I realized very quickly that the emptiness had very little…

Triggers and Chain Reactions

{Content Warning for Mental Health topics and the hyperbolic use of “crazy” to describe myself} This isn’t a sexy post. Not at all. I apologize. As I write this, I am blisteringly aware that I am not where I am supposed to be. I am sitting cross legged on the sofa in the den, lap…

No Such Thing As Too Much Love

I am not a monogamous person. I never have been. I’m one of those people who just fundamentally does not connect with monogamy, it doesn’t make sense to me. I have been non-monog since before I had the words for it. My early teens and first loves and relationships were functionally monogamous but I can’t…

Rejecting Masturbation Shame. Again.

I’m frustrated. I’m frustrated that I’m blogging about this again, and that I still feel like an outsider for something so personal and unique. More specifically, I’m frustrated by the extensive online energy around women’s masturbation and how one-note that conversation seems to be. I’m frustrated by the shame and inadequacy I feel within the…

Reclaim & Reprise

Reclaimed & Reprised

And you give yourself away And you give yourself away And you give And you give And you give yourself away With or without you With or without you I can’t live With or without you This is an image from more than two years ago, previously lost in the annals of this blog, snapped…