Here are the Big Sexy Words for September!

This month’s Big Sexy Words are slightly more common/less challenging than some months. I have done this in hopes that more people will be inspired to get more invested in their erotic language skills and join in! There’s no particular theme, either, so don’t feel pigeon-holed at all, use them how and where you like – and then link up your Big Sexy Words post and share! Enjoy!


sapiosexual – someone who finds intelligence arousing and/or attractive. 

unseemly – improper or inappropriate.

ambrosial – especially pleasing in taste or smell.


maidenhead – either the concept of (feminine) virginity, or the hymen. 

paramour – a lover, especially the illicit partner of a married person. 

bosom – breasts, cleavage, decolletage.


ravish – to seize and carry off.

mount – to climb atop of, such as a person or a horse.

undulate – smoothly rising and falling or moving back and forth. 


please note: the link up now lives on the wbsw main page and is open indefinitely. please read the directions on that page before adding your link. 

How to Participate

  1. Use one or more of the 9 words for this month as inspiration for your kink/sex/erotica writing
  2. Link up and add the WBSW badge to your post
  3. Like, share and comment on your peers’ posts
  4. Use the hashtags #WBSW or #WriteBigSexyWords

click here to link up your WSBW post

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Violet Fawkes

Violet Fawkes (she/her) is a freelance writer and sex blogger focusing on pleasure education, erotic fiction, and the intersection of identity, kink and mental health.