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This Month’s Big Sexy Words

This month’s Big Sexy Words are slightly more common/less challenging than some months. I have done this in hopes that more people will be inspired to get more invested in their erotic language skills and join in! There’s no particular theme, either, so don’t feel pigeon-holed at all, use them how and where you like – and then link up your Big Sexy Words post and share! Enjoy!


ribald – depicting or referring to sexual matters in a way that is unacceptable in polite society
fleshly – having to do with life on earth especially as opposed to that in heaven
prurient – having or showing too much interest in sex


verge – the brink or threshold of something
finial – a crowning ornament or detail (such as a decorative knob)
amuse-bouche – a French language term for a small complimentary appetizer or anything that is delightful to the mouth.


jounce – a forceful coming together of two things
vitalize – to give life, vigor, or spirit to
quell – to put a stop to (something) by the use of force


#WriteBigSexyWords – August 2022

please note: the link up now lives on the wbsw main page and is open indefinitely. please read the directions on that page before adding your link. 

How to Participate

  1. Use one or more of the 9 words for this month as inspiration for your kink/sex/erotica writing
  2. Link up and add the WBSW badge to your post
  3. Like, share and comment on your peers’ posts
  4. Use the hashtags #WBSW or #WriteBigSexyWords

click here to link up your WSBW post

Nine Big Sexy Words for March

Violet Fawkes

Violet Fawkes (she/her) is a freelance writer and sex blogger focusing on pleasure education, erotic fiction, and the intersection of identity, kink and mental health.