This Month’s Big Sexy Words

This month’s Big Sexy Words are slightly more common/less challenging than some months. I have done this in hopes that more people will be inspired to get more invested in their erotic language skills and join in! There’s no particular theme, either, so don’t feel pigeon-holed at all, use them how and where you like – and then link up your Big Sexy Words post and share! Enjoy!


bodacious – excellent, admirable, or attractive. 
sapphic – relating to lesbians or lesbianism.
opalescent – showing varying colours as an opal does.


vessel – a person, especially regarded as holding or embodying a particular quality.
nectar – the sugary secretions of flowers.
tryst – a private romantic rendezvous between lovers.


ravish – to seize and carry off, also to enrapture.
beckon – a ‘come-hither’ gesture of the hand or arm to invite someone towards you.
rend – to wrench  violently, to tear something in two.


#WriteBigSexyWords – March 2022

please note: the link up now lives on the wbsw main page and is open indefinitely. please read the directions on that page before adding your link. 

How to Participate

  1. Use one or more of the 9 words for this month as inspiration for your kink/sex/erotica writing
  2. Link up and add the WBSW badge to your post
  3. Like, share and comment on your peers’ posts
  4. Use the hashtags #WBSW or #WriteBigSexyWords

click here to link up your WSBW post

Nine Big Sexy Words for March

Violet Fawkes

Violet Fawkes (she/her) is a freelance writer and sex blogger focusing on pleasure education, erotic fiction, and the intersection of identity, kink and mental health.