This Month’s Big Sexy Words

What can I say? I’m a sucker for love … and sex … and passion… and power … so Valentine’s Day really cranks my engine. The nine Big Sexy Words for February have been chosen for their libidinous nature, just in case you’re writing anything particularly dark and lusty this month. All of them lend themselves well to erotica, and there are three of each: adjectives, nouns and verbs. As always, use the words in whichever form or tense you need to. Enjoy! 

salacious – adjective – having or conveying undue or inappropriate interest in sexual matters.

dalliance – noun – a casual romantic or sexual relationship.

cosset – verb – care for and protect in an overindulgent way, to treat like a pet

frisky – adjective – playful and full of energy, a playful naughty intimation of sex

intimacy – noun – an intimate act, especially sexual intercourse.

covet – verb – yearn to possess or have something or someone.

wanton – adjective – sexually unrestrained or having many casual sexual relationships (typically used of a woman).

idolatry – noun – extreme admiration, love, or reverence for something or someone.
supplicate – verb – ask or beg for something earnestly or humbly.



#WriteBigSexyWords – February 2022

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How to Participate

  1. Use one or more of the 9 words for this month as inspiration for your kink/sex/erotica writing
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Violet Fawkes

Violet Fawkes (she/her) is a freelance writer and sex blogger focusing on pleasure education, erotic fiction, and the intersection of identity, kink and mental health.