I’m feeling a bit out of touch with this space, so I’m swinging in for a quick update.

Is it just me or is this the busiest summer ever? I feel run off my feet. Don’t get me wrong, I’m brimming with gratitude. When you freelance you have to make hay while the sun shines. But at the same time, I’m getting tired, and things are just ramping up!

Part of what I’m working on is cleaning up this site and going through old posts. I’ve decided since I’m short on time and resources for the next while, as I pick through old posts, I’m taking some offline and reprising others. So if you see posts that seem familiar, or stories you’ve read before, please bear with me. Consider it a greatest hits album on repeat until things settle down a bit. 

I hope you are all having a great summer and I thank you for your patience! 


Violet Fawkes (she/her) is a freelance writer and sex blogger focusing on pleasure education, erotic fiction, and the intersection of identity, kink and mental health.