Every month is Masturbation Month in my world, but out in the world at large, it gets the spotlight in May. I’ve put together a round up of reminders about sex positivity and masturbation, including product reviews, Sex 101 articles, and fiction to help you enjoy yourself for Masturbation Month!

https://violetfawkes.com/sex-101/

 

SEX 101
Sex positivity and adult sex ed are ongoing processes of growth and learning. Sex 101 is about more than just biology, it’s about people and the complex ways that sex, sexuality, sexual identity and sexual relationships impact us. I have begun a small and ever-growing collection of “sex 101” articles to foster curiosity and learning on topics of all sorts that inform, demystify and entertain. Check it out here 

HIGHLIGHTS:
How to choose the best vibrator for yourself
Five myths about vulvas that everyone should be aware of
Rejecting masturbation shame

 

 

YOU DESERVE AMAZING LUBE
Once upon a time I thought all lube was more or less the same. Spoiler alert: It’s not! Sutil Lubes is the official lube of VioletFawkes dot com because they are a small, family run, independent lube company, made in Canada, and they are totally natural. Oh, not to mention, they feel incredible! See my reviews of the entire Sutil line

HIGHLIGHTS:
Sponsor Spotlight: An interview with Sutil Lubes
Love Potions
Flavoured lube for people who don’t like flavoured lube

 

https://violetfawkes.com/category/toy-review/

 

LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR SHITTY SEX TOYS
Reviewing sex toys and intimate products is a labour of love …errr …lust. It’s hard work but someone has to do it! Most of the products I have reviewed I really loved, some were not so hot and a few were downright disappointing. You are cordially invited to browse through my personal collection of pleasure products. See for yourself which ones got me off and which ones pissed me off. See all my reviews here

HIGHLIGHTS:
Want to learn to squirt? Get an Ambit dildo!
The Crucidix
Silicone Handcuffs

 

https://violetfawkes.com/?s=masturbation

 

STILL NEED INSPIRATION?
Fiction, photos, personal essays, rants and raves; over the years I have said a lot about masturbation, and I have shared a lot of my own journey of shame, discomfort, and liberation regarding flying solo See all posts referring to masturbation here

HIGHLIGHTS:
Rejecting Masturbation Shame. Again. 

 

That’s a wrap! Have a fabulous month and do make sure you get in some extra ‘self-care’ by way of a cheeky wank when you can. Have fun, play safe, keep it sexy!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Violet

Violet Fawkes (she/her) is a freelance writer and sex blogger focusing on pleasure education, erotic fiction, and the intersection of identity, kink and mental health.