Welcome to #WriteBigSexyWords – October Edition! October is my favourite month, by far. I love the crispness in the air, pumpkins on front porches, and how the natural world (on this part of the planet) begins to fold itself down into winter sleep. There is something inherently sensual about autumn and I find that both my imagination and my libido really perk up when “spooky season” hits.

#Write Big Sexy Words – October Edition has been brought to you by our sponsor, Hathor/SUTIL, purveyors of fine lubricants. Click this image to visit their website.


This month’s words are autumnal and lend themselves well to the sexy-spooky erotica that you may feel inclined to write as Halloween approaches. Not into the scary stuff? These words can fit themselves in anywhere you need them. I hope that they spark some inspiration and get you conjuring up some amazing stories!

Meet our #WBSW Sponsor: Sutil Lubes
If you haven’t read it yet, skip on over to the interview I did with Mellta Swift, the entrepreneurial force behind Sutil Lubes. I firmly believe that erotica, in general, needs two things: more big sexy words and more lube! Let’s normalize talking about condoms and sex toys and lubricant in erotica! Sutil’s formulas are totally natural and feel great and I’m super proud to have them onboard as a project sponsor for the #WriteBigSexyWords – October Edition.


On the first of the month, each month, I share a blog post containing 9 big sexy words and their definitions. Feel free to use the words and phrases as writing or photo prompts or simply as a resource to bolster your vocabulary and add some new words to your already brilliant creative ideas.

#WriteBigSexyWords – October Edition

verb hex the act of casting a spell, often with negative consequences
noun spectre a ghost, spirit or other visible apparition
adjective macabre disturbing or horrifying, a reference to death or injury.
verb reap to cut and/or gather a crop; harvest
noun sussuration a whisper-like sound, a quiet indecipherable sound
adjective ghoulish morbidly preoccupied with death
verb forage broad term for searching for food in the wild
noun gloaming dusk, twilight; the transition between day and night
adjective gilded covered, or appearing to be covered, thinly with gold


How to Play Along with the# WriteBigSexyWords – October Edition
Check out the #WBSW page here and read up on the rules and grab the badge (or copy and paste from the badge below). Then use one or more of the words for this month in a written piece or as inspiration for an image and link back to this post (using the linky tool below)



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You can absolutely stack #Write Big Sexy Words – September Edition with other memes and writing/picture prompts like #BeyondFetChat, #QuoteQuest, #NoTrueWay, #SinfulSunday,  #LingerieIsForEveryone, etc.


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Violet Fawkes

Violet Fawkes (she/her) is a freelance writer and sex blogger focusing on pleasure education, erotic fiction, and the intersection of identity, kink and mental health.