Did someone say sextember? That’s right, this month is going to be even more full of sex-ed and sexual health info, sexy fiction and personal opinions and thoughts on all things sex.

I ran a poll on Twitter recently asking which post topics y’all were most interested in and I was surprised and delighted that “Introvert Exhibitionism” came out on top! Introversion is such a misunderstood concept  so I’m looking forward to discussing the delicate balance of being an introvert and also wanting to ‘show off’.

We’ll also talk all things vulvas this month and I’d like to add a post to Molly’s epic Pussy Pride project. De-mystifying the vulva is a topic I have been sitting on for awhile now but due to my own personal history of insecurity about my vulva, I haven’t really dipped into it. Time to take that bull by the horns and dissect and dispel some myths about the vulva!

Sacred sex, sex majik, lube, and aphrodisiacs are also topics on the docket for this month, rounding out the sexual myth theme nicely. There will be some product reviews and even a giveaway! And of course, let’s not forget you can link up to #WriteBigSexyWords with the 9 back to school themed terms for this month. I hope they inspire and delight as you write and that they contribute to your practice.

It’s going to be a great month – I hope you stop by again. If you haven’t already, subscribe on the sidebar and get an email nudge every time I post so you can stay up to date.

And one more plug before I get on with all this writing: If you’re feeling generous and want to help support my writing and all the projects mentioned here and more, you can become a supporter via Patreon or you can buy me a coffee. Thanks for your readership and continued support!

Violet xo


Violet Fawkes (she/her) is a freelance writer and sex blogger focusing on pleasure education, erotic fiction, and the intersection of identity, kink and mental health.