Month: September 2020

#WriteBigSexyWords – October Edition

Welcome to #WriteBigSexyWords – October Edition! October is my favourite month, by far. I love the crispness in the air, pumpkins on front porches, and how the natural world (on this part of the planet) begins to fold itself down into winter sleep. There is something inherently sensual about autumn and I find that both […]

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Do you need Love in D/s?

“There’s no place for love in D/s.” What a statement! I love the No True Way project because it make me think, and more often than not, gets my hackles up. Do you need love in D/s?

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Lights, Camera, Anxiety! 5 Ways to Banish Self Doubt In Front of a Professional’s Camera

5 Ways to Banish Self Doubt In Front of a Professional’s Camera

Intimate photography, or boudoir photography as it is known, is an ever-growing industry, leaving you, the consumer, a million and one options when looking for a professional photo shoot. Don’t know where to begin? Start by building confidence and setting yourself up for success with these 5 ways to banish self doubt in front of […]

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Sponsor Highlight: Sutil Lubes

I am so delighted to introduce you to the Hathor/SUTIL brand of natural lubricants, as well as the awesome people behind the brand. What better way to do so than to literally introduce you and have them share with all of us some of the key concepts behind their awesome boutique line of pleasure products.

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A red Barabarian dildo from John Thomas Toys lays on a duvet covered in an all over floral pattern of red and pink roses. Delicate, feminine floral vs 12" of silicone shaped like and alien dragon penis.

Meet the Barbarian

It’s a joy to introduce you to this exceptional toy: Meet the Barbarian! Sent to me by John Thomas Toys, the Barbarian is by far the biggest toy I have ever used! Let me tell you all about how this 3 lb chunk of silicone has been blowing my mind …

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I Want You In the Morning

I’m hitting two memes in one with this post on morning sex: Kink of the Week and Quote Quest.

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“Le loup déroule le tapis rouge, – Ce qui reste du Chaperon Rouge.” ― Charles de Leusse

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5 Myths About Vulvas That Everyone Should Be Aware Of

As part of #Sextember, it’s time we had a look at some of the myths and lies surrounding bodies and sexuality. Centuries of puritanism, misogyny and flawed research have created many misconceptions about the vulva – what it is, how it works and what makes it unique. So, in an effort to tackle this ongoing […]

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Shower Power

Punishment has always been a strange concept to me within D/s because for a long time I thought of it as unnecessary. I know that’s an unpopular opinion and I get that for many folks punishing/being punished is part of the fun. Punishment gives tangible consequences to the accountability of much desired tasks and structure, […]

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