Happy Saturday, my loves!

I don’t usually think of summertime as a reflective period of the year. I think of it more as the season that I push myself to be more external – more social, more out of the house, more plans and people – yet it has been a summer of self discovery and realisation for me, and it seems for many of my friends and colleagues, too. Something I love about this community is the willingness to explore and think critically about one’s own ideas, thoughts, needs, desires.

For #SOSS I am sharing 6 pieces that are decidedly self aware and speak to the writers’ willingness and ability to be reflective and thoughtful in the face of changes, uncertainty, relationships and their own minds and hearts. Life and love and kink all get messy sometimes, but returning to your innermost self and having the courage to push yourself to explore, is almost never the wrong choice. I hope you enjoy these as much as I did.



Positively Poly

Floss with a little f

Summer Lust

Finding The Light



Love, Violet xo


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The Blog Days of Summer was created on a whim because I’m rubbish at writing every day and I want to get more disciplined. Join in, write what you want, when you want – it’s a place for all the sexy, summery smut you write to be seen!

Violet Fawkes

Violet Fawkes (she/her) is a freelance writer and sex blogger focusing on pleasure education, erotic fiction, and the intersection of identity, kink and mental health.