What have I done? Committing to blogging every day for this month already sounds like a challenge, but I suppose that’s the point. I’m not, by nature, a very disciplined person when it comes to self care or self discipline. Providing structure and care for others is much simpler for me, and it’s no doubt the root of my FemDom fantasies and realities. Self guided change is something I have to work at. I am great at brainstorming a plan, creating a schedule or structure, and getting all the moving parts of an idea or project in place, but then I still have to execute. In a kink scenario, the execution is the fun part, because by the time you get to it all of the planning, negotiations, safety, etc. is already sorted. Writing everyday is a task that I know I’ll struggle with, and that’s why I have set out to do it. What will I write about? Will anyone care? I can’t let these thoughts interrupt the execution of this plan. It’s an exercise in consistency and learning how to stop making excuses to not write simply because I’m not in the mood or I’m not feeling creative. That said, if you’re reading this and you want to suggest topics to me, please do. Some days there will be a lot, some days less, but by golly, there will be 31 entries by the end of the month if it kills me. Join me?


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Violet Fawkes

Violet Fawkes (she/her) is a freelance writer and sex blogger focusing on pleasure education, erotic fiction, and the intersection of identity, kink and mental health.